It’s difficult to not to think about why unfortunate situation happened.
Life experience has taught me instead of thinking about “why”?
I start practicing to react differently on the same events.
Surprise, it brings new sparkle and new hope.
Next time, when you circle within the same problem for too long, give it a try, jump out the old way.
Try something new to react to it, you will be surprised.
May a bright magic energy with you.